Let Deepika live. Let women live.

Following Deepika Padukone’s revenge, here is my blog about women after very long time. Women who are said to be playing vital role in our society, it is actually wrong and there is no truth in it. Actually women are being raped, molested, abused and killed. They have just been a ‘thing’ more than human beings.  

Women, too want sex. What wrong Deepika said? It is true because it is a need of a society whether you’re a male or a female. It is an art of nature which must be done. And there is no crime but it must be done with consent, with innocence, both must feel the effect of love. Rape is no more a ‘crime’ in India but it has been a culture. Whichever woman a man will like, he‘d decide immediately to have sex with her anyhow. If a woman will be ready for it, man will be satisfied and if she won’t, man will rape. It is hunger of ‘sex’ in present man and end of humanity when he is victimizing kids even aging between 2 to 12 years older ones. This is not crime again. This is our culture.

The controversy has been created after the leading newspapers The Times of India’s alleged post about Deepika Padukone “OMG! Deepika Padukone cleavage show”. An estranged actress fought back with a tweet and I gave her name Ranchadi Deepika (brave, fighting for rights, for the sake of her own honor), has again raised issue over women. I was standing with Deepika and I am still standing with her. When it comes to the issue of respecting women, there is only a show. What’s cooking inside human minds, one can never ever say. Men have often raise issue over women’s clothes which are more revealing. What do men see? Breasts, legs, thighs or back? But these are part of a body. You can’t stop them even if anybody wants to do. The world is created beautifully and so the humans too. Remember Adam and Eve, even they lived naked, they never ever had such feeling about ‘sex’. Adam never knew what breasts were, what vagina was. Similarly Eve never knew what a penis was. But Adam never raped her nor did Eve protest him.

The question will remain forever about respecting women. A man won’t be able to respect a woman until he’ll stop seeing her negatively. Woman is beautiful. Everyone wants to have her in life, as a mother, as a daughter, as a friend, as a girlfriend, as a wife or as a grandmother. But if you want to bring her going against a nature, you’ll become an ugly guy. You can never be categorized in humans. You will be an ugly animal. Women too need love, care and immense respect. There are very few women in my life but I respect them a lot and so our friendship is an unbroken. No one in the world can harm them except my death.  What we want? Sex? It is okay. It is a part of our life and so it is also a part of their lives too. Our society has been formed beautifully. It allows us to do it after certain period of life. But if you’re talking sweetly with woman and on other side, you’re staring her breasts, her back and thighs, you’re doing wrong. We live in an independent country and we all have our own right to live. We can’t restrict anyone’s life and can’t defame them in any condition. What the Times of India did was disrespectful act and Deepika Padukone might have dragged them into court for defamation but this was her generosity that she tweeted in such manner. I respect Deepika and know the difference between REEL life and REAL life. I also ask the Times of India to post the same image of an ordinary citizen of Mumbai city and publish in the next day newspaper with the headline…

“OMG! This girl’s cleavage show.”

And see what response they’ll get.

In a race of nature, humanity won.

It looked like a normal rainy day, just like Mumbai. Few rains and the water start logging. But this was different. In one of the hotels of Jammu & Kashmir, a Mumbai based family went attending a marriage function. Everything was normal when flood started entering the hotel premises, the senior person of family Mr Vijay Thakur, a Chembur resident, started taking pictures of floods with fun. In no time, they were surrounded by floods that made them move to the upper floors of the hotel. Thakur family realized that they were in big trouble…

This blog is dedicated to the brave Thakur family who survived in J & K floods based on article published in Mumbai Mirror followed by an interview taken by RJ Jituraj of Radio Mirchi Mumbai. Mr Vijay Thakur is one of my managers in my office and he shared the audio clip of that interview. But it brings tears in eyes when we listen. The way how we become miserable against the nature when it thinks to take revenge, when it is not in a good mood with the innocent people or when it wants to teach lesson to people how the way global warming is taking place around. On 8^th September 2014, Mumbai Mirror published about the family was stuck in J & K and needed help. The Thakur family safely returned couple of days ago in Mumbai. Today Mr Thakur was on air with Juturaj on radio Mirchi, Mumbai, described the story of surviving from floods.

No sooner did Thakur family found themselves trapped, they started seeking for help. Very soon, mobile networks & telephones services were disconnected. The hotel staff confirmed that they were trapped and the only hope of surviving was the army which was helping all other people. But they were still waiting for the help. The hotel staff assured them whenever the help would arrive, the guests of their hotel would be allowed to go first before the staff. They were merely survived on couple of parathas which were being served as a food in hotel. When Thakur family saw an army boat, they started making loud noise in order to make them noticed about help. The army personals took them in a boat to a bus which took them to the place where choppers were taking rescued people to their camps. But the journey was going to be tougher. When they reached there, they found huge queue of people. There was no food, and no toilets. Somehow women and little children were allowed to stay in Governer’s outhouse while men from family stood in a queue for their turn. Thakur family got the chance to board on chopper after 1 and half day after waiting. By chopper, they were taken to the army base where Indian Air Force planes took people to their destinations.

Mr Thakur in Jammu & Kashmir. A heaven turned into a hell.

Thakur family was one of the luckiest family who survived before the nature. I think that this family will never forget this week long ordeal through which they suffered and how our army helped them returning back to their sweet home. Thakur family is an example that in the cruel race of nature, humanity has won. Think about the generosity of the hotel staff that helped them to board first before themselves, think about the army personals that selflessly served them, and think about the blessing of god too. There must be something that they were taken care of. Returning from J & K, they immediately saw doctor whether they were suffering from pneumonia or not. But everything was normal. This tragedy has taken many lives, many people have lost their homes, J & K is too destroyed but this disaster will certainly have left a wound on Thakur family which they would never ever forget…