Sorry for being away from blogs. As this is my personal platform, I am very busy with my happy married life. Not only that can be the reason but also my liability in office is also increased. I always dreamed of my simple marriage but it never happened. It was typical Big Fat Indian wedding. And now we are almost in 3rd month of our marriage life. It almost changed suddenly. Sometimes it looks very strange but it is a big responsibility and a good opportunity. A responsibility to perform all rituals and an opportunity to serve a woman. And now the subject of woman comes on a women's day. Well, I wouldn't have to explain more about how I think of women. People who know me very well know very well. Or someone who doesn't know may also refer my previous blogs where I have spilled beans of my emotions when I usually feel lonely. I found the best way to express myself.
It was 15th May when I met a girl of my dream. It was typical arranged thing which I always disliked. I wanted to get involved in love marriage but as you know that the God has written separate stories for all. When you are born & your life is decided and you have to form yourself into it. 30th May when we got engaged and suddenly my life changed. What I was thinking about woman, what I was writing for woman, I completely forgot because I started concentrating single woman. Now it was my duty to take care of her, to make her happy in all situations. I had to learn it. So I went away from those issues. I forgot how a girl was gang raped in moving bus and succumbed to injuries, how a bright student was attacked by her neighbor with acid and she died in hospital, how a woman fell of moving train when robber robbed her purse & pulled her our from local etc etc. All these topics, issues might have been described in my previous blogs but I had stop concentrating them. I am just following up the news of Monica More right now who is surviving with new prosthetic limbs and she has become an apple of Sachin Tendulkar's eye.
It was 15th May when I met a girl of my dream. It was typical arranged thing which I always disliked. I wanted to get involved in love marriage but as you know that the God has written separate stories for all. When you are born & your life is decided and you have to form yourself into it. 30th May when we got engaged and suddenly my life changed. What I was thinking about woman, what I was writing for woman, I completely forgot because I started concentrating single woman. Now it was my duty to take care of her, to make her happy in all situations. I had to learn it. So I went away from those issues. I forgot how a girl was gang raped in moving bus and succumbed to injuries, how a bright student was attacked by her neighbor with acid and she died in hospital, how a woman fell of moving train when robber robbed her purse & pulled her our from local etc etc. All these topics, issues might have been described in my previous blogs but I had stop concentrating them. I am just following up the news of Monica More right now who is surviving with new prosthetic limbs and she has become an apple of Sachin Tendulkar's eye.
20 Dec when we tied knot, Dolina is almost the same woman I have desired for years and this women's day becomes special for me as now I have not only got the most beautiful girl but also she is having her Birthday today. And so it is very special occasion! What best gift I can present? For a girl, there are many things that can be given and I even try to give her with my capability. As a person, I am not that much rich financially but I am sure that by heart, by soul, I am the richest person and I try my best to make her smile always, to make her happy always and to give her surprises always. She is just like Agnes as she is little and mischievous, She's just like Rapunzel as she always dreams of good life. She is like the Queen Elsa as she shows her anger when she gets temper. But her heart is like Belle, such sweet and innocent that even melts a beast like me.
I was talking about the gift that I can give to her. It is not a thing. It is a promise. A promise to live with her happily ever after, a promise to deliver her unconditional love, a promise to protect her, a promise to stand by her side always, a promise to make her wishes come true, a promise to be positive, a promise to have lots of joy, happens and health in life and a promise not to bring tears (which I usually try but I fail often). Foundation of a healthy relationship is laid on trust. There is no doubt that we both each other blindly and therefore there isn't any possibility to break each others hearts. Life is all about learning lessons. I always think that the time moves very fast. Just before I think of tomorrow, I go down in the past and remember I just went to school on bicycle when I wasn't thinking about this day, I just went to college when I wasn't thinking about this day, I just went to my first day at job when I wasn't thinking about this day. I see little children and I see myself into them. I realize how my parents sacrificed their entire lives for me. They didn't enjoy anything just to fulfill dreams, they compromised with few things but gave me all that I want. Today, I have still not reached the spot when I am able pay them back what they have done to me. Marriage was not always possible without them and they did. A grand marriage was successful only because of them. Another woman who played a major role is my mother and I am sure that there is no one stronger than her in the world for me. The more I can write, the lesser I express. Entering in my new phase of life with a new girl looks different. There are many duties, there will be many responsibilities but I only hope that we both will go on a path of flowers, with mutual understanding and with mutual consent. It is the hardest thing to serve a girl who has spent Princess' life at her own home. When she leaves home she doesn't know how her in laws are, in arranged marriage, she doesn't know how her husband is. It may be difficult to counter them in new family but it is only our duty to stand by her side. Love is giving independence, love is giving respect and love is making her feel free. That's what woman wants.
