Just think, you aren't alone.
It
happens when your family doesn't support you, you are a broken hearted, you're
not being appreciated by co staff in office, no one likes you around or
bullying you. It means you are alone, surrounded by worse thoughts which are
constantly arising in your mind. And this is the time when you will often
think, "Oh God! Why am I here? Why don't you take me from this cruel
world?" And here you make a mistake. What you demand, the same you will
get. Always.
If
you're reading this, first be thankful to God and everyone around you by whom
you have been able to read this. There are many people who cannot even read and
so they cannot change their way of thinking. For many years we have lived
keeping a blind faith on our fates. "Whatever happens, it happens
for good". But is it the right way to accept? Actually we hide the
same thing which has happened and try to overcome it. But we can never. Because
we keep concentrating it and keep asking, Why? Why me? Why only me? And we are
tangled in similar situation again. We start going temple, wish lord for good,
keep fasts, wear different rings etc. But it isn't a solution when the problem
is living inside us. Our thinking. Even coming back from there, wearing rings,
keeping fasts etc., we keep thinking those stupid things. I bet we're gone.
Forever and ever.
For
many years I have been reading books, watching movies and taught under several
teachers. There is only one thing that rules the world. It's your thinking. You
are what you're imagining. Just like that Ginnie says,"Jo hukam mere
aaka. Your wish and I fulfil." Never make yourself down with your
thought. When a negative thought arises, immediately replace it with the good
one. This is the universal rule. This is what every book will say, this is what
every Guru will say, this is what every inspirational programme will say and
this is what every successful person will definitely say. Let me give you and
example what I saw today. I saw a little boy playing in a car when his dad was
buying something. He was opening and closing the door and playing around. I
thought something. This kid has quite good future, wealth and prosperity belong
to him. Even if he won't study, won't learn. You know why? Because he will
think positively. He will never face financial issues, always supported by
parents and even get a girlfriend in his teenage. Because everything around him
will be good and he will never be worried for anything. This isn't a joke. I have
been living in metropolitan cities for many years. First Delhi and now Mumbai.
But I still found many people miserable with worries, complaining, stressed and
complicated in their relationships. Oh for god sake! Be clear what you want.
You are living in one of the top cities of the world. Do not let any negativity
ruin yourself. Enjoy it! The way you enjoyed your child hood. When we were a
child, we were always happy as we never thought negatively because we never
knew what negativity is. So why can't we live today like a child throwing away
all the worries and think like a child. Stupidly imagine things beyond your
imaginations. Like you are commuting in a local, you are even not able to move,
still you think you're going into a C Class Merc in office. You know
complaining for everything is a very bad habit. Just see little kids begging on
singnals, platforms etc. And think your are quite happier than them. The women
who are living in prostitution industry, you are quite different from them.
We
want to change the world but it won't change until we stop our protest. If you
need money, just think about it, imagine about it instead of being a robber or
make complaint why he is richer. If you need health, imagine a good health. A
doctor won't heal you. And if you need a beautiful girlfriend, imagine her.
Close your eyes, think you are sitting with her on a promenade of Marine Lines,
your head is down on her shoulder and you're whispering in her ears,
"You're mine. I want you." And see, you will get her sooner. Have
patience for all the above things when you're implementing them in your life.
When you are processing the same, never let the negativity comes around you.
Your each effort will go in vain. That's it. You were not alone. Now you have
the entire universe with you. Just keep a smile on face. When boss scolds you,
listen everything but keep a huge smile when you sit on your own table. Have
spirit to live life. Stop complaining, stop expecting, never be proud of
yourself, leave attitude, respect everyone around you, leave enemies on their
own, stop thinking of revenge and the most important thing,
Go
and stand in front of the mirror and say, "I love You"
E.g. You name is Sneha, then go to your mirror, see yourself, and loudly say, "I
love you Sneha." I bet this is really not stupid act. To get your
self loved, to get yourself respected, to get yourself considered, first you
will have to love yourself, you will have to respect yourself and you will have
to consider that you are here for a noble cause. Sachin Tendulkar is even not
graduated. Today he has been the God for many lives including me, he is a
Congress MP. Have you seen MSD's first home? And look at him today! You are special, you are different and you have
the powers to change your destiny which you had written wrongly. The world
didn't end on 21.12.2012. So it wants from us to make it changed. By thinking,
we can make everything possible.
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