Love, Sex aur Dhoka now with Social Networks.

                Many things died with Sunanda Pushkar whether she lost her life after the controversy of Twitter war? Nobody can answer it and we will never be able to know the truth. Or maybe even Shashi would ever be able to know! People would deny that the social network could be the reason behind her death because if it is, then govt. has to take further steps to control these social networks.  And the big question is raised against these social networks whether they all are safe or not. Well few incidents would definitely take you closer to the question.

                The girls for whom we say that we should respect a lot, she openly talks about sex on a social network site and tells one of her male follower, “Please be my sex teacher from today!” The thing is that one can even be disguised on social networks and act like a stranger. No one could ever identify those people. One other boy I saw in Mumbai local when I was coming Bhayandar from Virar. I got into Andheri bound train and he sat beside me. He was chatting on WhatsApp with his girlfriend. His girlfriend, on other side was stripping and capturing picture of her. She was forwarding her nude pictures one by one on WhatsApp and he was downloading them even being aware of the thing that everyone around him was watching those pictures. Not only that but also that boy was forwarding those pictures to his other friends and group on WhatsApp. Well I find no fault of that boy when his girlfriend was so cheap. Few days ago, 14 year old Kandivali girl committed suicide after getting frequent dirty messages on her Facebook ID. That girl was tired getting messages and approached police but they didn’t help her. In depression, girl committed suicide. In the same incident an unemployed UP boy made fake profile on FB. He befriended a teenage girl and made her fall in love. The both met many times and the boy then asked her for some money. He told girl that he had bought 5 crore property in Worli but he was short of some money. The girl stole 16 Lakhs Jewelry from her home and gave to him. Receiving the jewelries, the boy flew away.

             

Let's Tweet!

   The most advanced way of committing crime using these social networks has just came in light when a boy murdered a girl in Mira Road. The boy befriended a girl and like others, he too made her fall in love with him. He approached her with his sexual desire but girl didn’t agree. Then he promised to marry her. He met the girl with a Mangalsutra and they got married simply. On the day of marriage, he raped the girl and slit her throat in bathroom. I have got her shocking pictures but I am not sharing here. These are only few cases which reflect the light on crimes over the social networks but we cannot deny their effects on our lives. I am not blaming them as I have got such a nice human being as my friend Mrs. Muskaan and another wonderful friend lives in Bihar. For me, they have always been useful instead of creating a trouble for me. But the thing is that the more we’ll be aware of the things about social networks, the more we’ll be awakened and take care of any activity which will be taking place inappropriately. These social networks are very useful nowadays but we must keep a restriction line to use them as they have taken many more lives in India, they have broken many marriages, many relationships and even many homes. The example is Marathi actress Alka Punawala. Be careful talking to the stranger and have fun with friends, relatives, with your bfs and gfs whom you trust a lot and who will never ever cheat. If they’re gonna cheat, there’s no wonder you’re being used. And you only better know for which cause. We have created technologies. So don’t be bound with such stupid thing that makes you finish your life. Enjoy them but never make a reason to end a life because of them.