Thursday 26 December 2013

When women cross their limits...



                I am amazed how Dr Shubhagi Parker, dean of KEM hospital facing ordeals in her hospital complex for last many months. Bindu’s incident was just over and another one took place in the laboratory where 12 women employees charged the elder lab technician Ashok for sexual harassment. The police filed case against the employee who was working with hospital for last thirty three years.

                The incident took place about a month ago when his colleague women told the hospital authorities about the behavior of Ashok, the senior lab technician. They all alleged that he would abuse them verbally and took their pictures in his mobile phone. On their complaint, the authorities immediately took steps against him and charged him with sexual assaults. The strangest thing is that yesterday he has been acquitted from all sexual harassment charges by the inquiry commission. He was left innocent and the police withdrew the case. They found no proof against him about sexual harassment and they could not even find any picture of women captured in his mobile phone. After the enquiry commission freed him from all charges, Shobha, his wife was too there and they both broke down seeing each other in the court premises. Why not? They had the toughest time spent over a month.

                Shobha was happy in her 18 year married life with Ashok with two sons ageing 13 & 15 year old. He was loyal and hard working man who was also an idol for his own kids. Last month suddenly she read news in newspapers about her husband who was charged with sexual assaults. She broke down and could not even believe the news as her husband had never discussed about this issue with her. As soon as it was published, the neighbors started visiting her home and asked what actually happened. She was receiving calls from her relatives and even being asked the same questions. After the incident, she had also kept her cellphone switched off.  She trusted her husband and she thought he could never do such things in life. He loved his job and respected all. For a month they had hardly spoken to each other after the case was filed until he was relieved. She ignored him but she felt that he was still an innocent. Yesterday many things he revealed in the court premises. He told the court that the all women who framed sexual harassment charges took revenge with him. He further informed that women often come late in lab and he warned them to inform their late coming habits to the management but he never did because they were his colleagues. All those women came late and noted down wrong timings in muster. Few of them also put attendance in muster on the previous day when she remained absent for whole day. He was tired of their indiscipline and he was about to make a complaint to the administrative department of the KEM Hospital. He also told them that he would take snaps of them signing the register with timings. Everything was revealed and it was confirmed even by all 12 women. Dr Shubhangi is happy now to see his senior employee relived. Even she was not able to believe. But Shobha, who faced this strangest ordeal, is yet not able to forgive her husband. And therefore the couple broke down after the hearing.

                It was happy ending for Ashok but this is something which he could never ever forget in his life. We all respect woman I believe but they must stay in a limit. A charge like “Sexual harassment” is almost similar to rape. If they will charge men with the same just to take revenge, it will be the most shameful act by which they will lose their own credibility in the society.

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